Walk the walk, talk the talk, but can you blog the blog?
Among the many assignments that were thrown at me, we received the on-going task of maintaining a blog. Not only that, they wanted it to be interesting!
I wasn't very familiar with blogs, their uses and how they could be beneficial to this program. To me, the blog replaced Livejournal and online diaries of the like. It wasn't a way to get noticed for a job or market a brand, it was just a way to vent and talk about your life. Boy, was I wrong!
One Thursday in our seminar slot, a few famous bloggers, like Colin Fast, came to talk to us. I was very surprised that some blogs stood out from the rest and that you could actually establish yourself through this.
Blogging is a way for people to see how you write. It's a way for people to learn about you, your personality and the types of things that interest you. This is valuable to employers, especially in the Communications world. It's another way of social networking, like Facebook and Twitter. This just actually involves effort.
We are required to post one blog by 6pm Friday every week. Like true students, most of us put it off and post Thursday or Friday. None of us are opposed to writing earlier though if a moment of genius came to us. As for me, CreComm has slapped most of the creative right out of me, so I'm usually the Friday-at-noon poster. My blog doesn't really have a central focus; I don't really have one thing I can count on every week to give me enough substance to talk about it weekly. So far it's just a wish-wash of things I see.
My Favorites
Some of my fellow Section 2 classmates (insert applause here, because that's how we do) have really found their niche though. One that I most enjoy is Stacia Franz's blog about her terrors of customers while being a server at Earl's St.Vital. It is always thoughtfully written, quirky and hilarious. It has opened my eyes a lot, because I'm a non-tipper. Now I just feel guilty.
I also look forward to Kiran Dhillon's blog every week, because it always makes me smile and renews my faith in love and kind people. I really like the pick-me-up.
Blogging can also be pretty negative if you aren't careful what you say. Whatever you put out on the internet is there for anyone to see, take, and critisize. It can destroy you reputation and turn employers off, burn bridges and break ties. You have to be careful.
I love getting comments on my blogs, so don't hesitate to comment about anything! Happy blogging!
mediocrity killed the CreCommer
I've always been one that strives to break from the pack; to establish myself as an individual and do things that nobody else dares to do. I was the one who took initiative and was the over achiever. I was known as "that" person.
Now, i'm in a program that hosts 75 of these people. At first I was so excited to be among people of the like, but now I am finding it hard to break from the pack. Marty from the movie Madagascar, knows exactly how I feel.
Coming in to this program, I felt really creative and good at what I do. I did very well in University but now i'm the dreaded AVERAGE! But now, everyone is like me. I don't know how to raise the bar. How can I break from the pack? How can I prove to be (sorry Kenton), unique?
I guess it's just about finding my own way. I love it here and I love what we do! Just the mediocrity is eating me alive!
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Trick-or-Treat, smell my feet, give me something good to eat! Not too big and not too small, just the size of Montreal!
& they live happily ever after.
Children’s literature is full of images of princesses meeting their prince. It’s a beautiful scene , and of course they always live happily ever after.
With these kind of expectations drilled in to my brain since I was a child, how can a regular relationship ever live up to my ideals about love?
Or are they even really ideals, or things we should all strive for?
I find a lot of people settle in love. Not so much at my age, but I see couples that are older that are nothing more than long time roommates. They have kids and a mortgage and joint bank accounts. But where is the love?
I find comfort often mistakes itself for love. Most times it makes love even better. People get used to the way they live their life and dedicate so much time and effort in to something. To suddenly drop that doesn’t even make sense. If you spent a year on a certain project, there would be no reason for you to give up on it forever. After dedicating yourself for that long, you find it hard to rationalize giving up. At what point does love become something you feel bad for giving up because you’ve spent so much time on it? And at what point do you keep pursuing it because you know how great it can be?
When you are on the outside looking in on a situation, you imagine the ways you would react. At those points you are strong and unbiased. It’s a product of what you truly feel. But when you are in those situations your biases come in to play that you never considered when you were on the outside looking through the glass. How do you go back to that time and try to look at your own situation with being swayed by emotion and commitment?
In love, what things are you willing to compromise? What things are you never willing to give up?
There are barely any real life prince-meets-his-princess-fantasy stories. People don’t usually live happily ever after without ever having anything go wrong, no arguments, no hurt. But just because that’s not the norm, does it make it okay?
In the song She Will be Loved by Maroon 5, it says “it’s not always rainbows and butterflies, it’s compromise that moves us along.” I really believe that. I think that there are some things you can never work at. Love, a connection and that twinkle in your eye, giddy feeling cannot be created or forced. It just is. That is the nucleus of a relationship. Every other detail you should be able to figure out. It’s about communication. Arguing doesn’t have to be destructive. A lot of the time it can be constructive for a couple if both people exercise active listening and constructive thoughts. And just because a couple argues doesn’t mean they are a bad couple. I think it’s the result that comes out of an argument that is a true reflection of a couple. And those things can usually be worked on.
Although every little girl dreams of being a Jasmine or Cinderella, it hardly ever works out that easily in the end. But the take home message, I think, is that love prevails through everything else. And that “love,love, love…love is all you need”. Everything else is just details.
….I think. I hope.