Christmas time
People groan and grumble about all their shopping, baking, gatherings and wrapping. So why do they even do it?
The malls are going to be insane and traffic to those places will be equally as packed. You know this before you go, so why complain about it? In my opinion, if you say you are willing to go shopping on a weekend, you accept these circumstances.
It's Christmas. It's the one time of year people people are half-expected to do something nice. So really, I know it sucks that someone snuck into a Walmart parking spot that you had been waiting for. But try not to let it ruin your mood for the day, and do not take it out on the poor people that work in retail during these hectic times!
Take this time to be with family. Enjoy recklessly eating without worrying too much about consequences. Be patient and kind. Do things because you WANT to do something, not because you think you should.
My blog will take a bit of a hiatus for the next few weeks because I will be on holidays and intend on relaxing and visiting with friends that are coming in from out of town. So, happy holidays!
Angèle
put em' up
Hey you, twit.
Twitter has the ability to reach a mass audience and already has sub-categories and lists according to certain topics and interests. This makes it easier to find and follow target audiences and to tailor messages.
Help, please?
Our lives are made up of small parts. There are more small things and gestures that happen in the span of our lives than big defining moments. So why don't we appreciate those, for they are a larger part of our lives?
Whoever comments on this blog post, I want you to say two 'little' things that happened to you that day that made you feel good about yourself. Show some love.
Today's 'little' things for me:
Today, my class gave me a CreComm round of applause (although I shouldn't be TOO flattered, since they clap for everything) for my Nana's Sugar Cookies and gave me rave reviews! I really appreciated that guys.
Stacia, today was the first day I have been in a car with you driving. You are a really good driver. I usually feel car sick, I did not feel car sick at all. So, kudos.
Right now I'm sitting beside Zach and Renée, two people from my class that I don't really hang out with too much. It's awesome to feel really accepted with my class, knowing I can hang out with whoever.
When I was waiting for the bus today, I was the first person at my bus stop. Two other women came to the stop, and were standing closer to the road than I was. But when the bus came, they recognized I was there first and told me to go ahead of them so I would have first dibs on seats. Thank you people who recognize Winnipeg Transit courtesies.
I also didn't have to wait to use the microwave today.
What are you 'little' things for today? Did someone make you smile, laugh or just generally feel good about yourself? Let them know.
Here are some other 'little' things that make me smile:
1. When the bus driver tells you to have a nice day. This always makes me feel good. Even if he says it to everyone.
2. On the bus, there is just enough people that no one has to sit beside one another.
3. When it's like that, and the 'overflow' person that comes on the bus decides to sit beside you. Although I don't like sitting beside people on the bus, I find it weirdly flattering.
4. When you put on shoes that were sitting on top of a heating vent before you leave the house. Clothes that just came out of the dryer are good too. And a warm towel right after a shower.
5. When you wake up two minutes before your alarm goes off, so you can shut it off instead off of waking up to BEEEP BEEEP BEEPP
6. Finding a parking spot at Walmart close to the doors.
7. Having a good packed lunch.
8. When someone says they like what you are wearing.
9. When you go to jay-walk, and the coast is clear.
10. When you hit the right 5-minute increment in Winnipeg rush-hour.
11. Getting a call,text or Facebook comment from someone you used to talk to a lot.
12. When someone keeps the door open for you.
13. When someone trusts you enough to ask you to look after their stuff while they go to the bathroom, smoke etc.
14. When someone asks you for help, because they think you know what you're doing.
15. Falling asleep on the couch.
I leave you with the song "My Favourite Things" from the Sound of Music. Enjoy :)
Land of the wacky and the weird
It's funny, Grand Forks is only two hours away, but things are so different in the states. When shopping at Hugo's Grocery store, I found the most hilarious things. One of the things that stood out were these instant brownies,cookies and cake. You just add water and microwave for 30 seconds and you have an insant baked goods. Gotta admit, I had one, and it was great.
Here are some of the other weird, wacky and beautiful things I found:
Diet Coke sweetened with Splenda. I love this idea and wonder when we will be getting it in Canada! A lot of people are apprehensive about Diet Coke because it is loaded with Aspartame, which some say causes Cancer (but really, what doesn't these days?) I wonder though..in regular Coke there is 26 grams of sugar. Is there 26 grams of Splenda in this? That can't be good for you.
Talk about a niche market.
Yes, there is MORE healthy pop! Coke Plus, enriched with Vitamins and Minerals. I don't know if this is absolutely insane or genius!
Dear Abby
Since then, I have been very intrigued by Aboriginal culture. My mom used to work at APTN and it was really interesting to see all the stuff she was involved in. When she worked there, we went to Manito Ahbee and it was absolutely amazing, especially the chicken dancing - it gave me tingles up and down my spine. The costumes are all made by hand with great colourful beading. No two are the same.
Aboriginal culture is one that encourage kindness, selflessness, brotherhood, peace and a sense of purpose and meaning in this world. It also means a sense of pride, but also a broken past.
I was talking to a friend of mine, Thomas Edwards, about Aboriginal issues. Thomas is an awesome Aboriginal Role Model and has done great things in his community. We were talking about residential schools and the inequalities Aboriginal people have faced in the past, and he said something that really struck a chord with me. He said "It takes seven generations to heal, i'm only the second". A lot of people think that people really dwell on the past. But it's not really that far in the past. Aboriginal peoples only were granted voting priviledges in the 1960s, so a lot of people that are alive today still remember a time when they weren't allowed to cast a ballot. The last residential school to close was in 1996. These things aren't the past because it happened in our lifetime. So it can't just be forgotten that easily.
This weekend is the Manito Ahbee Festival for All Nations in Winnipeg. It is a GREAT weekend with SO many fun events! Last night I went to the First Night Awards at the McPhillips Street Station Casino and dipped my feet in to Media Relations working with RoseAnna Schick. It was absolutely amazing. Tonight is the Aboriginal Peoples Choice Music Awards at the MTS Centre with people like George Canyon, Charlie Major, Sierra Noble, Crystal Shawanda and is hosted by Lorne Cardinal (From Corner Gas). Saturday and Sunday is the International Competition Pow Wow with lots of crafts and art for sale on the main concourse.
I strongly urge everyone to go to a Manito Ahbee event this weekend. It's a great time!
Walk the walk, talk the talk, but can you blog the blog?
Among the many assignments that were thrown at me, we received the on-going task of maintaining a blog. Not only that, they wanted it to be interesting!
I wasn't very familiar with blogs, their uses and how they could be beneficial to this program. To me, the blog replaced Livejournal and online diaries of the like. It wasn't a way to get noticed for a job or market a brand, it was just a way to vent and talk about your life. Boy, was I wrong!
One Thursday in our seminar slot, a few famous bloggers, like Colin Fast, came to talk to us. I was very surprised that some blogs stood out from the rest and that you could actually establish yourself through this.
Blogging is a way for people to see how you write. It's a way for people to learn about you, your personality and the types of things that interest you. This is valuable to employers, especially in the Communications world. It's another way of social networking, like Facebook and Twitter. This just actually involves effort.
We are required to post one blog by 6pm Friday every week. Like true students, most of us put it off and post Thursday or Friday. None of us are opposed to writing earlier though if a moment of genius came to us. As for me, CreComm has slapped most of the creative right out of me, so I'm usually the Friday-at-noon poster. My blog doesn't really have a central focus; I don't really have one thing I can count on every week to give me enough substance to talk about it weekly. So far it's just a wish-wash of things I see.
My Favorites
Some of my fellow Section 2 classmates (insert applause here, because that's how we do) have really found their niche though. One that I most enjoy is Stacia Franz's blog about her terrors of customers while being a server at Earl's St.Vital. It is always thoughtfully written, quirky and hilarious. It has opened my eyes a lot, because I'm a non-tipper. Now I just feel guilty.
I also look forward to Kiran Dhillon's blog every week, because it always makes me smile and renews my faith in love and kind people. I really like the pick-me-up.
Blogging can also be pretty negative if you aren't careful what you say. Whatever you put out on the internet is there for anyone to see, take, and critisize. It can destroy you reputation and turn employers off, burn bridges and break ties. You have to be careful.
I love getting comments on my blogs, so don't hesitate to comment about anything! Happy blogging!
mediocrity killed the CreCommer
I've always been one that strives to break from the pack; to establish myself as an individual and do things that nobody else dares to do. I was the one who took initiative and was the over achiever. I was known as "that" person.
Now, i'm in a program that hosts 75 of these people. At first I was so excited to be among people of the like, but now I am finding it hard to break from the pack. Marty from the movie Madagascar, knows exactly how I feel.
Coming in to this program, I felt really creative and good at what I do. I did very well in University but now i'm the dreaded AVERAGE! But now, everyone is like me. I don't know how to raise the bar. How can I break from the pack? How can I prove to be (sorry Kenton), unique?
I guess it's just about finding my own way. I love it here and I love what we do! Just the mediocrity is eating me alive!
Buyer Beware: Halloween Safety Squad
Trick-or-Treat, smell my feet, give me something good to eat! Not too big and not too small, just the size of Montreal!
& they live happily ever after.
Children’s literature is full of images of princesses meeting their prince. It’s a beautiful scene , and of course they always live happily ever after.
With these kind of expectations drilled in to my brain since I was a child, how can a regular relationship ever live up to my ideals about love?
Or are they even really ideals, or things we should all strive for?
I find a lot of people settle in love. Not so much at my age, but I see couples that are older that are nothing more than long time roommates. They have kids and a mortgage and joint bank accounts. But where is the love?
I find comfort often mistakes itself for love. Most times it makes love even better. People get used to the way they live their life and dedicate so much time and effort in to something. To suddenly drop that doesn’t even make sense. If you spent a year on a certain project, there would be no reason for you to give up on it forever. After dedicating yourself for that long, you find it hard to rationalize giving up. At what point does love become something you feel bad for giving up because you’ve spent so much time on it? And at what point do you keep pursuing it because you know how great it can be?
When you are on the outside looking in on a situation, you imagine the ways you would react. At those points you are strong and unbiased. It’s a product of what you truly feel. But when you are in those situations your biases come in to play that you never considered when you were on the outside looking through the glass. How do you go back to that time and try to look at your own situation with being swayed by emotion and commitment?
In love, what things are you willing to compromise? What things are you never willing to give up?
There are barely any real life prince-meets-his-princess-fantasy stories. People don’t usually live happily ever after without ever having anything go wrong, no arguments, no hurt. But just because that’s not the norm, does it make it okay?
In the song She Will be Loved by Maroon 5, it says “it’s not always rainbows and butterflies, it’s compromise that moves us along.” I really believe that. I think that there are some things you can never work at. Love, a connection and that twinkle in your eye, giddy feeling cannot be created or forced. It just is. That is the nucleus of a relationship. Every other detail you should be able to figure out. It’s about communication. Arguing doesn’t have to be destructive. A lot of the time it can be constructive for a couple if both people exercise active listening and constructive thoughts. And just because a couple argues doesn’t mean they are a bad couple. I think it’s the result that comes out of an argument that is a true reflection of a couple. And those things can usually be worked on.
Although every little girl dreams of being a Jasmine or Cinderella, it hardly ever works out that easily in the end. But the take home message, I think, is that love prevails through everything else. And that “love,love, love…love is all you need”. Everything else is just details.
….I think. I hope.
just so you know
mom, I need vodka - it's an emergency!
life always goes on
When I was younger, I would always look at people in College and University and imagined what my life would be like then. I’d look so put together and ambitious. I’d have a coffee in my hand about 90% of the time and I’d feel great about starting my life.
I’m in my third year of post secondary studies, and I don’t like coffee. And I’m scared out of my boots to “start” my life.
My classmate Alexa wrote a very interesting post on her blog about starting life. It got me thinking – when does your life as you know it and want it, start?
I always thought my life would start when I had my degree, a job and married my boyfriend. But it’s true, life started a very long time ago. Life is what made us want what we want now.
I have a quote I painted on the wall of my bedroom that reads “You are a product of the choices you make, not the circumstances you face”. I used to fall in that trap a lot – having pity parties for myself because of my circumstance. Then I realized things happen, and people deal and bounce back. There are all sorts of people in this world and I believe every single one has a story that could break your heart. Even the people with the most heart breaking stories somehow still seem to survive. Some become world leaders, and some just find a new path to walk down.
Point is, humans face strife all the time. Things hurt, but they don’t last forever. Sometimes the residue of hardship lingers around for the rest of your life, but it does not throb with the same wrenching intensity forever. People adapt, they deal. And life always goes on.
I keep telling myself this when it comes to CreComm. So many people are trying to convince us innocent first years that this program is absolute H-E- double hockey sticks. That we will fail miserably sometimes, we will lose tremendous amounts of sleep and it may ruin our relationships. It scares me so much to think that’ll happen. Especially the latter. The work load is starting to build and it is starting to overwhelm me. Is this what I really want to do, is this where I should be?
I know this is where I’m supposed to be. I have known this is where I’m supposed to be for a while and it really feels right. It just seems very daunting and i’m feeling overwhelmed. The scare tactics have worked. But I’m a person, and people deal and adapt. One day at a time. I’ll deal. That’s the choice I’m going to make.
Okay Steve, now I understand the importance of proof reading.
Sex-service number given out as government hotline
"Maritime lobster fishermen in need of financial help got quite a surprise Tuesday when they were directed to a toll-free number that was supposed to detail an aid package but which connected them to a lusty sex line instead.
One of the several toll-free information numbers released by Fisheries Minister Gail Shea hooks up callers to a sex line that offers fishermen nary a detail on the lobster stimulus package.
"Hey there hot stuff, I've been waiting for your call," a breathless female voice proffers. "Are you ready for some tantalizing fun?"
The phone message confounded some fishermen in the region who have been pressing Ottawa to provide financial support after a dismal season at sea.
"That's supposed to be the line the information's on?" said Ken Drake of the P.E.I. Fisherman's Association. "It don't sound very good."
The hotline — one of five for Atlantic Canada and Quebec — is supposed to offer details about a short-term assistance program for lobster fishermen that Shea announced this summer.
The department's four other numbers were working properly. The correct number for Maritime lobster fishermen to call is 1-877-525-7466.
Scott Cantin, a Fisheries spokesman, said the error occurred when two digits in the phone number were somehow transcribed improperly on the news release and the department's website.
The service offers to link callers with a credit card to "nasty girls" with "the hottest action."
"We're not exactly sure where the error occurred, but we know it was just a typo and we regret it and we corrected it immediately," Cantin said from Ottawa.
The incorrect number sat on the site for several hours, but Cantin said he didn't know how many people had called it before the correction was made. He said they hadn't received any complaints."
Somebody's getting fired...
unknown name
So when someone sees my name on something, I get really excited! My mom once came home from Ottawa when I was about 13 and she bought me this rubber stamp that said "Angèle" (oh yah, with la accent grave and all!) in some Comic Sans MS font. I don't stamp at all. But I still have that because it is the first thing I ever saw with my name on it.
My parents were at the Boston Pizza in Canmore, B.C today and took a picture of this for me. Look at the boat on the bottom right. It doesn't have the accent but it has still gotten me all giddy inside!
new pepsi packaging
I was in Sobey's the other day and was so shocked by this (see picture). It's the new packaging for Pepsi! And it's red!
banjo bowl blues
the intro
No one really cares or even notices when they loose a penny.
Pennies often sit in your pocket, your purse or on your dresser for a long time before you figure out what to do with them.
Pennies are my thoughts, opinions and my perspectives. They sit somewhere within me, with no place to put them to good use, although I do know they hold value.
what to expect:
I don't have a very focused topic. I like to look at people around me and notice things and write. It could be about anything that evokes emotion.
The other thing I will do lots is a series of something i'll call Writing on the Wall. I enjoy doing photography and lately i've been taking a lot of pictures of things that are written on the wall. Random quotes and jibba jabba written on bathroom stalls or bus seats. So you'll probably see stuff like that.
Hopefully I will become more focused once I start writing!